Zabi’s positive attitude for life has helped him overcome challenges to chase his dreams.
“Becoming a refugee is like stepping into a sea of uncertainty, which you would never want to do.”
Zabi and his two brothers, all of whom have disabilities, spent seven years as refugees in India before coming to Australia in April 2022. Zabi was born in the Parwan province in Afghanistan, an area that was under control of the Taliban. His family fled to India due to the security situation.
Being a refugee with a disability in India was an extra layer of challenge for Zabi. However his resilience led to obtaining a scholarship towards a Bachelor and Master of Information Technology.
“When we were in India, most of the refugee youth had given up on the dream of pursuing their higher education because of their refugee status,” Zabi said.
“On the other hand, I persisted in contacting institutions until I was admitted and received a scholarship.”
Zabi was forced to learn English, Hindi and technology skills in order to complete his degrees. He even had to commute 42 kilometres every day on public transport just to get to university. Eventually his legs started giving way more frequently and Zabi required help from others to lift him up.
“I knew that my condition was progressing and it was inevitable.
“I choose to live my best, full of dignity and courage, and never used my physical limitations as a justification for suffering or doing nothing.”
Zabi defines finding out his family would be moving to Australia in 2020 as the happiest moment of his life, despite not knowing anyone in Australia.
“We saw a lot of people die during COVID-19 in India.
“My brothers were struggling to breathe; it was nightmarish and I was worried.
“We were just praying. It was God’s plan that we made it here.
“I finally had a place I could call home. I began learning about Australian history, political system, and culture in order to make the transition to living here easier.”
Now 24 or 25 (Zabi is unsure of his exact age), Zabi is working in IT at Uniting Communities and speaks 5 languages. He’s looking forward to upskilling to Australian standards to become a cyber security analyst or software engineer.
Zadi volunteered with the Adult Migrant English Program (AMEP) helping Afghans learn English and aspires to make that a regular commitment between work and his life.
“That was one of the best things I’ve done in Australia. If I don’t do something like that (volunteering), I just feel don’t feel very well.”
Zabi lives his life by the Stoicism philosophy and his faith. He views everything bad that has happened in his life in a positive light.
“If that falling and if that disability and that refugee journey did not happen, I wouldn’t have been the person I am today. So I am just grateful even for those bad memories.”
Looking forward, Zabi can’t wait to further make a meaningful contribution to Australia and other refugees with his winning attitude for life.
“For many Australians, refugees that arrive here are just numbers that they see on TV, and they think that this is someone else’s problem.
“This lack of connection leads to resentment between cultures and I have a responsibility to change that; we learn from other people and I want to do my part in this country.
“I really believe in leaving the world a little bit better than when I found it, so I cannot wait to utilise all the opportunities this country offers to grow personally and to be able to give back to this society.”